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A Resolution-Focused Family Law Practice

Rebecca Stanley founded this practice on a straightforward belief: most family law matters don't belong in court, and the families who intentionally decide to stay out of court have better results — financially, emotionally, and relationally.

The practice focuses exclusively on settlement-based processes — mediation, negotiation, collaborative divorce, and carefully drafted agreements — guided always by a commitment to reducing harm, rebuilding lives, and helping families find peace on the other side.

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Meet Rebecca

Family Lawyer & Certified Family Mediator

Rebecca has practiced family law in British Columbia for over ten years, including with Connect Family Law, RDM Lawyers, and Alexander Holburn LLP.

Before entering private practice, she clerked at the BC Supreme Court, supporting six judges and overseeing family law projects across the court. The experience gave her a unique perspective on what litigation actually costs families — and why thoughtful resolution often serves them better.

What Sets Her Apart

Before law, Rebecca worked as a chaplain at UBC, supporting students and families in crisis. Her training in family systems and relationship dynamics continues to shape how she works with separating couples and co-parents today; she understands that the legal issues and the human issues are tangled together, and her job is to help people navigate both.

Outside of Practice

Rebecca enjoys baking, travelling, writing, Pilates, and volunteering in her community. She also enjoys supporting her young adult children as they explore life and pursue their own paths.

Rebecca maintains active membership and training with several respected legal and mediation organizations, helping her stay current on best practices in family law, mediation, and dispute resolution.

    • Juris Doctor, Allard Hall Law School at UBC

    • Certified Family Mediator (Law Society of BC)

    • Certified Family Arbitrator (Pending, Law Society of BC)

    • MediateBC Roster

    • Family Mediation Canada Roster

    • IACP (International Academy of Collaborative Professionals)

    • CPC (Collaborative Professionals of Canada)

    • CRS (Collaborative Roster Society)

    • CDV (Collaborative Divorce Vancouver)

    • CALM (Collaborative Association of the Lower Mainland)

    • BC Hear the Child Roster

The Foundation of Renovate

Compassion

We understand the emotional weight of family disputes and work to create a supportive environment where you feel genuinely heard and valued.

Active Peacemaking

Conflict doesn't have to be the loudest voice in the room. We create space for respectful conversation — even when things are hard.

Personal Growth

We support your journey toward healing, recognizing that separation, while difficult, can also be an opportunity for growth and a stronger foundation ahead.

Transparency

Clear, honest communication is central to everything we do, ensuring you are always informed and empowered throughout the process.

Empowerment & Autonomy

By equipping you with the tools and knowledge to make informed decisions, we foster confidence and self-determination in shaping your future — one built on respect, understanding, and hope.